How to understand that a guy is excited and wants sex

It is difficult for young girls to identify physiological manifestations during intimacy with a guy. Not everyone knows how to correctly recognize the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when a guy is excited and it's time to move to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of excitement when kissing

Touching each other's lips excites boys and girls. During a kiss, men express their desire for sex with the following signs:

• Rapid breathing and heartbeat.
• Biting the partner's lips.
• Dilated nostrils.
• Pupil dilation.
• Redness of lips, cheeks.
• The guy tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
• Formation.
• Hoarseness after a kiss.
• Before kissing his partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
• Touches the throat after the kiss.

After the kiss, the guy looks forward to the continuation, excited to the extreme. He will give excitement and other signs. Look closely at this immediately after the lips part. He will be confused, blurry, most likely the guy will take a deep breath and give him a big hug. If the kiss is not full of passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is occupied with something else.

Signs of arousal in girls after a kiss are the same as in men. However, women can show it more clearly, for example by moaning or passionately caressing their partner's neck with their fingers.

During hugs

It's easy to understand that a guy is excited during a kiss, you touch your lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs won't give you that information. Although during the hug you can pay attention to the following manifestations:

• The partner wants to hug the girl, reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
• The guy touches the partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, hands.
• He does not take his hands off his beloved's body right away, he lingers, he wants to prolong the pleasant moment.
• A man tries to look into a woman's eyes. The gaze is deep and long.
• During hugs, he puts his head on his beloved's shoulder, puts his nose into her neck.
• Performs gradual movements: firmly pressed, then moved away.
• After a passionate touch, the skin becomes a "goose eye", a shiver runs through it.
• He pulls at the hem of his clothes.
• He tries to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
• Sweaty palms.
• Increased salivation. The guy is thirsty, he drinks a lot of water.
• Tightens the muscles, keeps the back straight to look more collected, toned.
• Penile tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the guy has tight pants or thin shorts.

Recently, scientists have discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which are responsible for the production of gonadotropic (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage causes a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of excitement, their body tenses up, expecting closeness with a partner. Girls become more flexible, flexible, passionately react to the touch of a partner, nipples harden, genitals are moistened. The situation for men is slightly different.

Physiological signs of sexual arousal in guys:

1. If he is near the woman he wants, he keeps his back straight.
2. He unbuttons his shirt.
3. Adjusts the trouser belt.
4. Touches his face.
5. Answers the interlocutor's questions slowly.
6. He spreads his legs wide when sitting.
7. When standing, take the "feet shoulder width apart" position.
8. Bulging pelvis.
9. Actively gesturing.
10. He speaks loudly and quickly.
11. He looks at the girl, trying to get her attention.
12. He spreads his arms, as if imitating a hug.
13. Embarrassed.
14. Often licks lips.
15. Opens his mouth.
16. The timbre of the voice decreases, slight hoarseness may occur.
17. The face becomes cute, pleasant, conducive to communication.
18. Raised eyebrows.
19. Stutters in conversation.
20. Pupils dilate, eye color may change.

In addition to these manifestations, to understand that a man is excited to the limit, his sweaty palms, trembling hands and behavior like a peacock who fluffs his tail and addresses his beloved woman. At such moments, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting does not go too far if the woman does not plan to have sex. Giving a guy false hope with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.

Psychological symptoms

It is very difficult for men to hide their excitement. They are betrayed by psychological signs of excitement. Guys do certain things, make special gestures. It is impossible to control this process. So pay attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is excited, but hides this fact, if you notice the following manifestations:

1. A man is worried about his appearance. Adjusts clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
2. Not far from the object of attention.
3. Extends the hand contact time if the girl passes something to him.
4. He is embarrassed to kiss, so he touches the girl's face and hair.
5. He showers the girl with compliments.
6. Whispers if he says something intimate.
7. It feels awkward if a girl keeps looking at him.
8. He tries to please his partner to get what he wants.
9. When a girl responds, she smiles, experiences a spiritual uplift.

Psychological aspects of arousal must be assessed individually. Each person has their own behavioral characteristics.

Signs of excitement when texting

Modern people very often start love relationships through dating sites and social networks, so texting becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met the interlocutor in person, and he writes dozens of SMS every day, you should think about the fact that the man wants intimacy, rapprochement.

You can understand that a guy is excited during correspondence by the following signs:

• Frequently visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
• Uses any excuse to text a girl.
• Asks to throw a photo or sends his own. The openness of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the guy and the girl.
• Responds to messages quickly, ready to help at any time of the day or night.
• He openly confesses his desire, although the phrases can be disguised. For example: "I'd like to see you now", "You won't manage on your own, I could help if I was around", "It's a pity that we live in different cities, I would definitely write down your swimming section and carefully review your figure".
• You want to write more often in the evenings, when you are relaxed and alone.

Note! It is believed that the duration of intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of the woman during foreplay. Moaning, gentle touches to the buttocks, back, body movements help encourage the guy to have quality sex.

While talking on the phone

Signs of excited men on the phone will be:

• Long conversations.
• Calling for any reason.
• Conversation pauses.
• Ambiguous phrases and questions with a sexual undertone, so the guy is testing the waters.
• His voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak softly, to get rid of rude words.
• The boy is confused in his thoughts and answers out of place.
• An excited man slows down his reaction to external stimuli. So he speaks slowly on the phone.
• The guy breathes deeply, sighs often.
• Aiming to meet as soon as possible.
• Constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
• Offers her various date options, agrees to any meeting conditions.
• Stimulates the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.

It is impossible to excite and annoy a man with correspondence, too long conversations on the phone. Set the line yourself, taking into account the male character, his temperament. Otherwise, he will get cold and lose interest.

Advice for girls

Pay attention to the advice of sexologists on how to use knowledge about the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

1. Heart palpitations, shortness of breath, wide eyes are uncontrollable signs of arousal in guys, so they are the main ones. Please read this information first.
2. Verbal symptoms of burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its tempo and the characteristics of the conversation. In order to notice them, you need to communicate with a man not through correspondence, but in real life.
3. Another way to understand that a man wants sex is to observe his behavior during a date. In order to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrollable reflex actions. However, if the girl begins to follow his every move, she will be embarrassed, so watch your partner gradually, imperceptibly.

And one more important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, he wants to see you in his bed, make a decision on how your communication will continue. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male side. If a girl flirts and hints about sex, but constantly abandons her plans, playing with her partner's feelings, this will affect the guy's health. It is better to stop communication or to state directly that you are not yet ready for sex, than to entertain a man for a long time with false hopes.